He says he's a soldier stationed overseas and needs money to come home — is it a scam?
Yes — this is military romance fraud, one of the oldest and most expensive scams running. Real deployed soldiers don't need money for leave applications, customs fees, “communication charges,” or flights home — the military covers those costs, and no genuine service member asks a stranger from a dating app to pay them. The photos are stolen from real soldiers' social media, and the emergencies escalate only after you're emotionally invested. Never send money, gift cards, or crypto to someone you haven't met in person — and reverse-image-search the photos before another message.
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From the research desk — this pattern is one of those documented in This Week's Scam Wave, in Numbers — August 2, 2026 →